The remote receiver has three that is good! You will need an inexpensive wire tester to wire this! or an electrician!
The two pairs of wires you have, two black and two white, are not normal either, for a house built in 1991. Should of had two sets of three! (Black/White/Ground) One pair of wires go to the switch. The other pair is your power source.
Normally ceiling fans or light fixtures only have the one set, because the power source is run to the switch box, then sent to the fixture via the switch being turned on. Yours has the source at the fixture and then run to the switch.
That is why the other answer said "that white wire is NOT a neutral" Because that pair of wires will carry the current both ways, black wire to the switch and white wire back to the fixture! So like he said mark it with a 'sharpie or black tape.
Purchase a current tester to determine which pair of wires are from the power source.
Always turn the power off when wiring something like this, but of course you will need the power on to find which pair of wires are from the power source, mark them and turn the power back off! Since the power source is in the ceiling, you will probably need to turn the breaker off to accomplish this! Switch won't do it!
Now for wiring it, Black power source to to Black to switch, White from switch to Black and Blue Ceiling fan, White Ceiling fan to White power source! Grounds to grounds, if any, or to fixture box!